In one month, I will be officially in Benin participating in PST (Pre-Service Training – the Peace Corps apparently loves acronyms). Emails have started flooding in from different PC offices with information about the staging and training processes and the realness of my situation is starting to finally hit me. Here are some of the things going through my head at the moment.
Summer Expectations vs. Reality
I thought that I was going to spend the summer traveling to visit friends, maybe try and learn to sail or scuba dive or something crazy. Basically, I wanted to enjoy what would probably be my last relaxing summer until retirement.
Although I visited some friends and will visit some more, I didn’t do anything as wild as I’d wanted. I spent the bulk of the summer with the three youngest of my siblings. They are all in high school now and this has been the first opportunity for me to spend quality time with them since I, myself was in high school and they were noogie-height.
Frisbee,
barbeques,
swimming,
hiking,
board games,
card games,
made-up games,
softball,
weird insightful conversations, the list goes on. Basically, we played all summer long.
I was also able to spend a couple days on the Appalachian Trail, go fishing with my Uncle up in the Northeast Kingdom of Vermont (right around the corner from Bubble F*ck Nowhere, USA. Honestly, it might be in Canada, who knows . . . ).
All in all, I did not get as much alone time as I had anticipated, nor did I learn any new skills as I had hoped. However, I don’t think I could have dreamed of a better way to spend my summer than with my family. Distance can make you forget how wonderful having a close family is. This time with them was more important than any of the things that I thought I wanted or needed to do this summer.